Sunday, September 28, 2014

Food for Thought #2

"I am not your ordinary unordinary.
I am not your normal abnormal.
I am not your indifferently different.
I am not your insignificantly significant.

but if you become the beat of my heart,
you will understand what makes me magnificent."

- Michael John Walters

Sunday, September 21, 2014

What love means to me...

For a very long time, I have struggled with understanding love. I always had this clear picture of what I thought it would be. You know - the fairytale kind - love that last forever - the passionate, consuming kind - lots of love with a lil adventure and a happy ending. But it never actually lives up to your expectations.

I recently read an article and it summed up what I mean to say:

Anyways, moving on - my ideal love has always been what my parents share - constant, unending & ever growing. They have lived up to all their marriage vows, been with each other through better & worse. And from what I see, if there was no love in their relationship - it probably wouldn't have lasted all these years.

So drawing from what I have seen with them and what I feel, this is what love means to me:

It means no ultimatums or threats to the person I love (cause love shouldn't demand or pressurize).
It means putting his needs before my own (cause love needs a lil compromise). 
It means wanting to make him the happiest person alive (cause if he is happy, I'm happy).
It means I'd be happy by just being around him - being in the space he occupies, the air that surrounds him.
It means I would hug him & kiss him every morning before he leaves to work (hoping it makes his mornings better).
It also means I wouldn't mind waiting the whole day for him to get home (cause its comforting to have someone to come home to).
It means that he doesn't need to touch or kiss me, for me to feel close to him.
It means feeling peaceful while lying in his arms when he sleeps - hearing his heart beat and his rhythmic breathing.
It means feeling safe in his arms when he hugs me (cause he gives the best hugs and bonus - he smells so good).
It means listening to his worries, his dreams, his desires and just being there for him. But it also means giving him space when he needs it.
It means understanding that we are both humans and we make mistakes - so forgiveness is important.
It means sometimes I need to take his yelling/snapping cause I know he's stressed about something else.
It means forgiving all his broken promises and the times he didn't live up to his word.
It means not giving up on him even if he sometimes makes me feel like I should.
But most importantly - it means  - loving him unconditionally, passionately & with no expiration date!


 

Wednesday, September 17, 2014

Love At First Bite

It has been a while since I blogged, to be precisely 8 months. My excuse - too many things happening in my life and well - just plain lazy!

I actually started writing this one in March, right after my birthday but never got to completing it -  just like my pending Hampi post! *sigh*

Anyways moving on, "Love at First Bite" - a true delightful experience! And no, I'm not referring to the 1979 Comedy Horror Film, but the restaurant here in Oman.

Opened in April 2012 by Khalid Al Suwaid, his first venture into the culinary world has definitely been a hit in Oman's food scene. I can say without a doubt it is one of my favorite restaurants in Oman.

The first time I went there was for a Rakshabandan dinner with my cousins and I really liked it. Went there a couple more times and was more than happy with the food & service. So what better way to celebrate my birthday this year than by taking my friends to "Love at First Bite"!

I wanted to do something different and special - a set dinner with place cards and personalized menus etc. - a fine dining experience. And when I approached the staff at Love at First Bite, they were more than accommodating to my requests. Not only did they do everything I wanted, they did even more.

In all the planning, I completely forgot to print the menus for the dinner. But I didn't have to worry about it cause they took care of that for me. Everybody loved the personalized menus at their seating.

Also, everyone was served their starters individually which was a really nice touch!

They also gave all my guests the option of choosing one main or both if required.

Definitely, two of my favorite main dishes - "The way you look tonight" & "Denial"! Creamy and Delicious! :D

If I had to choose, "The way you look tonight" is my favorite dish on their menu. I always have it when I go there. I highly recommend it!




And it wasn't just the food that was really great, the staff were very helpful and coordinated. They gave us an amazing dining experience. And it wasn't just cause it was my birthday. Every other time I have been to the restaurant - I have never had any complains.


 I always recommend "Love at First Bite" to all my colleagues, family & friends for the experience that it is!
Mother's Day at Love at First Bite
Taking it to the next level with my favorite people
My best friend's first visit to Muscat

My Favorite dishes are as follows:

Appetizers:
She loves me not - Crispy Sesame Chicken
Speechless - Cripsy Cheese Parcels

Mains:
The way you look tonight - Chicken Breast in a Creamy Basil Sauce
I Found you - Chicken in a Plum Sauce with Mashed Potatoes
You & Me - Lamb Chops with Pepper Sauce and Mashed Potatoes
Denial - Signature Pasta in a Cream & Tomato Sauce

Desserts:
Take it to the next level - Chocolate Mousse with a Crushed Biscuit Base
Addiction -  Red Velvet Cake with Cream Cheese Frosting

LOVE AT FIRST BITE stays true its name and if you are in Oman, you should go and experience it!

Thursday, January 2, 2014

The Year That Was : 2013 !

After a disastrous (Overly emotional, binge eating, depressed) 2012, I longed for a drama-less year. And well, one could only hope.
 
2013 - wasn't even close to being drama free : From insecure girl friends and their ball-less boyfriends to disappointing (so-called) friends to professional politics etc. I could go on. 2013 did not disappoint in the drama area.
 
But midst all the drama, I met some really great people, travelled, dined at a lot of restaurants, read way too many articles on buzzfeed and thought catalog, researched on serial killers, danced like a lunatic on various occasions, cried for the stupid reasons, missed people (who I shouldn't be missing) and had some first time experiences (which cannot be mentioned here).
 
So at the end of this Epic 2013 - I would just like to raise a toast to the awesome (and some not so awesome) people in my life who made 2013 - the "epic year" it turned out to be!
 
To Mi Familia - Like most families, we have our moments of anger, of sadness, of happiness etc. but at the end we pull through. Thank you for being my support system and guiding force. I'm sorry for my erratic behavior on various occasions and will try to be less erratic in the New Year! You will always be my crazy family with my smart dada, cartoon mama, super savvy sistah and not so small anymore brotha! Love you all!


 
To Mi Familia Extensa - My Beautiful Extended Family (The Araujo, The Fernandes, The Dias & The Rodrigues) - We are absolutely noisy and fun together and I wouldn't want it any other way. May we be always be this happy and fun. May the good times continue to roll. And to ones who are no longer in Muscat and to the ones in India- We miss you all a lot.

 
 
To Mis Amigos - Don Corleone from The Godfather said "Friendship is everything. Friendship is more than talent. It is more than the government. It is almost the equal of family." I have been thankfully blessed with some great friends - and this year has truly been a test on friendship.
 
To My Za - My Best Friend and a part of my family. We all turn 25 this year and I'm glad that I have known you for close to ten  (out of those 25) years now. You are crazy smart and also just crazy. This whole year just went by...and we spent almost everyday chatting with each other.
Our crazy travel adventures, stupid conversations and mindless laughing are things I cherish.
And Dude - You came to Oman! like Oh-Man! Gave me the best Christmas gift ever! Love ya!
Thank you for being there for me through this crazy year and years that have passed.
 
To My Foof, Ashlin - You are stupid & kaka and you barely chat with me. But I cant imagine my life without you & your confused mind. Love you always my confused boy!
 
To My Dimpled boy, Aniket - Your smile lights up your face and I cant help but smile when I look at you.
I'm so proud of you - proud of the man you are!
Thank you for taking care of me in times of my craziness.
 
To My Meliboo - You are the cherry to my year! We have gotten so close over such a short period of time. I cant even remember why we never spoke to each other before this year!
My sweetheart, I love you thissssssss much! Always be the sweet little sexy poutress!
 
To My Handsome George - Amar,  We rarely meet but that doesn't make a difference though! Thank for the constant advice and support.

To My Beautiful Baby Girl Sydelle, You are so grown-up! An absolutely gorgeous girl and so talented! Im so proud of you! Will miss you loads!

To My Food Slut, Aleron - No one understands my love for food the way you do! Love you loads!

To My Sweet Rohan, thanks for being there and for the constant support! And for the sweet treats you got me this year! Here's to our friendship and stupid conversations!

To My Crazy Gorgeous Girl, Betty - My Betttuuuuu, 2013 would have been incomplete without your epic dance moves, infectious laugh and beautiful smile. Stay the same always!

To My Beautiful Relipoooo, my hot baker & sweetie-pie - You are simply the best and the sweetest! I love you loads!
P.S Leave Rudy for me!

To My Crazy Ashwini, this is to our crazy conversations and pigging out sessions this year! Thanks for it all! May you always remain the crazy person that you are! And remember to be strong!

To My Techy Cliffy, my silent boy - You are the best! So deceptively innocent and quite! Thank you for the epic videos and pics and the talks on random stuff! Stay the sweet self that you are!

To My Ever-So Entertaining Ms. Kumar, we have our ups and downs but we have still managed to get through it all! I wish only the best for you in life! Thanks for the support at work and otherwise!
P.S Don't believe anything Ali Taya says!

To My Sunshine At Work, Ali - The office is dead without your constant banter and singing! Thank you for always keeping us smiling!
P.S Don't forget to take the lithium tablets.

To My Cute-Sa-Dimpled Chehra Dost, Kashif - Your sense of Humor and maturity has helped in some really crazy times. Thank you for just being there and for making me laugh when I need it the most.

To My Handsome Sanket - I got to see SRK and Ali Zafar (*drool*) thanks to you! And not to forget Nitin (*sigh*)! Thank you for just making this year so great and for the funny interesting conversations!

To My Ladies Advisory Committee - Moo, Azuu, Anusha, Runi, Anu - The Funny Conversations and the constant excitement. Thank you for it all!

To the rest of Mis Amigos and the great people I met this year - The Frankincense Queen, Asma Jadal; My Sweet Simona, Frankie, Roshni, Samuel, Scifo, Conrad, Praveen, Neha, Hamish, Reema, Chintu, Gulu, Ralston, Avalon, Omkar, Niloufer, Krish, Ryan, the Saunders Siblings and so many more - Thank you for being a part of my year.

Also, not forgetting that person (who shall not be named) - thank you for shattering my faith in a lot of things in the past and for being manipulative - it taught me to value the good ones in my life! The ones who restored my faith!

And to that guy - thank you for not caring the way I care about you and for forgetting about me - it taught me to see that things are not always what they seem and to let go of the past!

And Finally - to all those insecure girl friends I met this year and their so-called boyfriends &  my supposed to be  friends  - Take a deep breathe people! The world doesn't revolve around you all - so grow up. And Couples Please stop giving each other reasons to be insecure & stop blaming others for your problems. And for those who don't know how to stand up for themselves and for their friends - I pity you all!

Wow, that was long!

So Cheers to you all! And Have a fantastic year ahead!


Happy, Happy New Year!
I wish you all the best,
Great work to reach your fondest goals,
And when you’re done, sweet rest.

I hope for your fulfillment,
Contentment, peace and more,
A brighter, better new year than
You’ve ever had before.
 (Poem by Joanna Fuchs)

Thursday, September 19, 2013

This needs to Stop!

Recently, the horrific stories of rapes taking place in India have been all over the news and other media. It makes you think about the kind of world we are living in where men rape 2 year old girls!And its just not girls/women being raped, its boys/men who go through similar situations.
 
I can't imagine the horror, the fear that they have to live through. And to add to that the pressures of a judgmental society, uncooperative police officers, lenient laws and even unsupportive family - the torment that most victims go through, forces them to either keep mum about it or become suicidal. And these are just rape cases being highlighted - no one ever talks about the various cases of sexual assault. Yes, rape and assault are not the same - rape is a type of sexual assault. Let me elaborate on that:
 
Sexual Assault
It is any involuntary sexual act in which a person is threatened, coerced, or forced to engage against their will, or any sexual touching of a person who has not consented. It includes rape, groping, forced kissing, sexual harassment, domestic violence, child sexual abuse, or torture in a sexual manner.
 
Rape
It is a type of sexual assault usually involving intercourse, without the victim's consent. The act may be carried out by physical force, coercion, abuse of authority or against a person who is incapable of valid consent (unconscious, incapacitated or below the legal age of consent).

Besides the problems faced by victims (as I mentioned above), I think a lot of them also have problems in facing the situation - they tend to block out the memories or live in denial, which is a major issue. I think that its because a lot of the times the "assaulter" is some one known to them - family, friends, neighbors. So it would be very hard to understand that why would that known person do that to them.
 
I came across this article on http://www.buzzfeed.com/ today, which actually triggered this whole post. It was about this initiative called "Project Unbreakable" started by Grace Brown in October 2011. The mission of Project Unbreakable is to increase awareness of the issues surrounding sexual assault and encourage the act of healing through art. It is a healing project for sexual assault survivors where they are photographed holding a poster with a quote from their attacker.

While, these women, girls, men and boys have shown incredible strength even through such adversities, the things said to them (and also who said it to them) will leave you feeling disgusted and immensely sad.
 
From strangers to neighbors to friends to relatives including fathers, mothers, sisters, brothers, immediate family, teachers, boyfriends - these were their assaulters. Those were the people who assaulted them from tender ages like 2 or 3, when the child isn't even aware of what is right or wrong. Even boyfriends and husbands, forcing sex!??
 
Doesn't it make you wonder who can be trusted?!
 
Its just incredibly sad to see all of this and it leaves me feeling petrified about the kind of world I will be bringing my kids into.
 
Saying that, I would like to add that I truly admire these survivors for helping in spreading awareness.
I believe that a lack of awareness or fear of being the "the only one" in the situation, is what holds a lot of the victims back too. So that would be the best place to start - create awareness; be supportive; fight for stringent laws; educate kids earlier in life.
 
I think it has become extremely essential, that we know and we teach our kids or rather everyone in our lives how to deal with such situations and support them. These are few things I would like to pass on to everyone I know for their safety:
  • Always be alert
  • Be aware of your surroundings
  • Choose your company wisely
  • At a parties, always pour your own drink and never leave your drinks unattended (My parents always told me that)
  • Remember that if it doesn't feel right, it probably isn't.



You know when I read about all this, It just makes me grateful for the kind of people I have in my life - strong, gentle, caring, protective and supportive - My Family, My Relatives, My Friends! And I am specially thankful to all the men in my life- Dad, Brother, Cousins, Uncles, Friends and others (especially my Dad) for being such wonderful human beings - who always care for me and watch over me.
 
In conclusion, always remember that you are not alone! 
 
So be firm, be strong and don't worry God has placed Guardian Angels for us in this mean world, who will always be there for us!


Thursday, September 5, 2013

Pondicherry - La Côte d'Azur de l'Est

It wasn't the first time that I had been to Pondicherry - had gone there late last year for my bestie Anupama's wedding. But between wedding preps, didn't get the opportunity to explore Pondi.

Pondicherry or Puducherry (its officially called that now) is a Union Territory and was the largest French Colony in India. A union territory(UT) is a type of administrative division - they are ruled by the union government. They have special rights and status. The reason why they might be given the status of UT could be to safeguard the rights of indigenous cultures etc.

Now, Pondi is know as The French Riviera of the East, and was a part of Etablissements Français de L'Inde (French India, 1815-1954). Its one of the most popular tourist destinations in South India and it still preserves its French Colonial Heritage.

The first trip of my two week vacation in India, I was visiting Pondi to explore it and to attend the International Dance Retreat at Auroville. You can read about the retreat by clicking the link. For now, lets get on to the trip and all that followed:

Day 1: Chennai, Pondi and the crazy weather
Eliza and me arrived in Chennai from Pune by flight at half past midnight on 09 August. We decided to hang out at the airport till day break and then catch a bus to Pondi. It takes around three hours by road. You can even hire a taxi from the airport but that will set you back by 3 to 4 grand. And since we were trying to keep expenditure to the low, catching a Volvo or a local bus seemed appropriate.

After the not so fulfilling dried corn in-flight, hunger set in and trust me Chennai Domestic Airport doesn't have any options for snacks etc as of yet. But thankfully, outside the airport we found a Maggie Kiosk! Yes, Maggie...this could be put down as our Maggie Story! 




Over our bowl of Maggie noddles and hot Nescafe, we discussed about everything from childhood to adult life to boys to marriage to what would we tell our children! It was crazy how time passed by so quickly. Before we knew it, it was close to four in the morning. The only annoying thing or rather spooky was the appearance of Bran's crow (yes, a GoT reference), it just went on staring at us and saying Caw-Caw! lol :)
Other than that the police on duty were really nice to us and asked us how we were getting to Pondi!

Now, the thing was we knew that we had to either go to Tambaram, which is around 10 km from the airport along the Grand Southern Trunk Road or go to Koyambedu, which is around 15 km from airport. So we decided to go to Tambaram since we were told if we reach untime(i.e after 12 - lol :)) we should go there. We asked someone how to get there and were informed that we had to walk to the international airport and get out from it, cross the road and catch a local bus to Tambaram. 

With language being a serious barrier, we managed to find out where the Tambaram(totally saying it with accent) bus would come and waited there. It cost us around Rs. 15 to get to it. Once there, we inquired about buses to Pondi but it turned out that the buses are not frequent and we would have to wait for a long time. So a man suggested we go to Koyambedu as the buses are frequent there. Once again we got onto a local bus and traveled back towards the airport for around 27 km.

At Koyambedu, we caught a local bus - "A Super Deluxe Bus" which cost us Rs. 125 each and was really comfortable. The weather was amazing and most buses take East Coast Road which is very scenic and beautiful. Unfortunately, as we were awake for 24 hours straight, we fell asleep in the bus. The only time I got up was when its started pouring heavily and rain was coming in from the window.

So anyways, we get to Pondi by around 10:30 am. Got to Anupama's place in Villanur, freshened up, ate something and headed out.

Our first destination was Centre for Research in Performing Arts (CRIPA) in Auroville to attend our first dance session at the International Dance Retreat. And for those who don't know about Auroville - Its an experimental township founded as a project of the Sri Aurobindo Society by Mirra Alfassa ("The Mother") in 1968. "Auroville is meant to be a universal town where men and women of all countries are able to live in peace and progressive harmony, above all creeds, all politics and all nationalities. The purpose of Auroville is to realise human unity.", as stated in The Mother's first public message about Auroville (For more information visit http://www.auroville.org/).

After the session, we headed out to grab a bite before movie night at the retreat and that's when the "fun" began! For any one who has been to Auroville, they would understand how easy it is to get lost. Yeah, we would eventually find our way out but the weather that night just added to it! Crazy wind, lightning, thunder and torrential rain plus two girls completely lost in a new place! And for some reason, everyone we asked had no idea where the movies were being screened. Wait, it gets worse or spookier! So we stopped to ask a guard directions and this Uncle appears suddenly and claims he knows where the movies are being screened. So he hops into our car and takes us down these lonely lanes with limited lighting (and yes, there was the spooky weather).

In our respective heads:
Eliza : Oh! At least Uncle will get us there!
Uncle: Yay! I got lift to my movie!
Me: Please! Please don't be a ghost! Please! Wheres the pepper spray?! Does pepper spray affect ghost?!

So after the spooky ride, we get to the location and it wasn't where our movie was getting screened. Uncle gets off (Didn't look at his feet just in case they were turned backwards)! And we wait in the car trying to get in touch with someone from the retreat to guide us to the location.

Picture this: Crazy Wind. Thunder. Lightning. Jungle. No street lighting. Car with lights off. No telephone range. Two girls desperately trying to call someone.
And someone knocks on our car window!
Scary as Hell!

It wasn't freaky Uncle (He isnt a Ghost, others saw him too!)! It was an Aunty who came to tell us that Uncle wasn't lying about the movie screening. So then we asked her how to get to our location! And Voila! She knew exactly how to get "somewhere there".

So we follow her instructions and reach near Matri Mandhir, which looked like an alien ship in the night.
But we still didn't find our movie screening and then it started pouring like crazy. So we decided to head back home, only to find out that there was a power outage - Thanks to the crazy weather! Exhausted and disappointed we slept off after dinner.

Day 2: The French Side of Town
After a exhausting first day, we were craving some good coffee to pick us up. So headed towards the french side of the town - Had brunch at this nice Bakery Restaurant - Bon Bakes!

We then decided to explore the area on foot, which I think is the best way to do it. You can use GPS or get a map locally of all tourist attractions to guide you.

We started off from Bharthi Park, walked past "The Promenade" onto Goubert Avenue, which runs along the coast line.

There is a lot to see down Goubert Avenue starting with Gandhi Statue, the Jawaharlal Nehru Statue, the French War Memorial., Le Cafe, Old Lighthouse, Joan of Arc Park, Dr. BR Ambedekar Manimandapam and some more.
Walking towards Goubert Avenue
A Heritage Villa built in the early 17th Century as a part of Villa Aroume, which served as the residence of many French Governors including Dupleix (http://www.hotelduparc.co.in/aboutus.htm)
At the Jawaharlal Nehru Statue

A four-metre high statue of Mahatma Gandhu surrounded by eight granite pillars, which were supposedly brought from Gingee, a fort around 70kms from Pondi
French War Memorial is a reminder of the brave soldiers who sacrificed their lives for their country during the First World War. Every year on Bastille Day - 14th July homage is paid to the martyrs.

The Swag Lady Rickshaw Driver
Forming our Game Plan
Down Goubert Avenue

Sri Aurobindo Ashram Press

Hotels on Bazaar St. Laurent Street

Pensionnat Goverment Girl's French High School

You there! I love you!
Joan of Arc Statue in the park, opposite The Church of Our Lady of the Angels
Church of Our Lady of the Angels (Notre Dame des Anges)
Built in 1855 in Greek Roman Architectural Style

Maison de Police
The Old Lighthouse
At the Pondicherry Museum, Rue Romain Rolland


Sri Aurobindo Ashram
We didn't go into the Ashram as there was a huge line but everyone does say that one should go visit it. So maybe in the future we will.

Running short on time since we had a dance session at the International Dance Retreat, we decided to grab some lunch (and some beers to beat the heat). So we headed back towards our car and then it happened!

What happened?! I stepped into cow dung!
Yes! Cow dung!

So there I was on St. Gilles Street, screaming Yuck! Yuck!, while Eliza was laughing uncontrollably. And yes, she decided to capture my foot print in the dung.
In her attempt to comfort me, she says that cow dung stinks less than other kakas! Yes, that's supposed to comfort me. So I got out my expensive facial wipes and tried to wipe as much as I could of my foot and shoe while trying not to be disgusted!

Anyways moving on from my traumatic experience (added to the stories I would tell me kids), our quest for lunch, brought us to Asian House on the South Boulevard. A nice restaurant which apparently turns into a night club over weekends. The food was pretty good and prices reasonable.
Asian House, on South Boulevard
American Steak
After lunch, we rushed to Auroville for the retreat. Being the last day of the retreat we had a dance jam session to end it. After that, we all decided to head to town to this place called "Le Club". Now, unlike what the name suggest, its not actually a club. I'll explain in a bit.

So anyways, we head over to Shanthi's Guesthouse (a firangi who has adopted an Indian name) to shower. And I can now successfully, tick having a shower in an open air bathroom of my list!
Its a very different experience - lizards checking you out in the shower, insects flying around, frogs who join in.

So after the shower, Frank, Eliza and me were sitting in the garden area, waiting for the rest - when Frank found our pepper spray. He was fidgeting with it, trying to figure out its functionality. And then he's like lets see if it works!
Yes, he sprayed it in the air!

We then put it back in the bag and carried on jabbering! And then suddenly we hear people coughing and sneezing a lot. People come out from their rooms saying what's this smell, its irritating my nose and throat! Turns out the pepper spray is really effective.

Imagine the effect of spraying it into someone's face! And Frank had to hear about it all evening lol!
So post-pepper spray, we headed to LE CLUB (Totally saying it in a heavy French accent), which is actually a restaurant and bar! But there were so many people waiting to get in - and even though someone in our group knew the owner, we had to wait for around 20 mins.

Waiting turned out to be so much fun - A couple of street vendors were trying to sell dholaks to us and then our instructors Wim and Dolores started dancing salsa to the beat of the dholak. It was really entertaining! When you want to dance, you find a beat in anything! :D
Za, Moi & Frank @ LE CLUB
After a long yet enjoyable wait, we get in! Its a nice restaurant with good food. I would definitely recommend Le Club. The steak and chocolate mousse is a must-have! We tried the Steak with Blue Cheese Sauce  and it was definitely the best steak I have had to-date - the meat was just melting in my mouth. And the chocolate mousse had the perfect texture and tasted amazing!
Frank #german #dasbeer #bolganapizza
Chocolate Mousse
It was a really great night – talking, laughing, singing besame mucho loudly, learning German drinking song!

After dinner we headed back to Auroville to drop people off, got stopped by cops a couple of times (normal). Then we headed back to Anu's house. Unfortunately, our phone batteries died so we couldn't get in touch with Anu. Thankfully Eliza remembered the way back so we didn't need GPS. But when we reached home, we realized the main gate was locked and there was no way to get in touch with Anu or Rabin.

So my war machine aka Eliza decides to climb over the gate and starts pelting stones at the bedroom window. It didn't seem to be working. So she asks me to climb over the gate! hahahaha!
me + climb over a gate = disaster

I tried I really did! She even passed over an ironing board for me to stand on - that was too funny! I stood on it and it collapsed below my feet! And to add to it I was starting to get freaked out in the dark! But by God's grace, Rabin heard us shouting out and came to check.
Exhausted from an eventful day, we headed to bed. 

Day Three: Mango Hill, Salads and Goodbyes...
After an awesome second day in Pondi, it was time to say our Goodbyes to Anupama & Rabin, who were nice enough to invite us to their house. Anu has become this perfect south Indian wife, who made yummy idlis and tried to over-feed us! But it was really nice and its always fun catching up!
Moi & Hot Mama
We headed over to Hotel Mango Hill for the Retreat's Brunch and Pool Party. It was a perfect day - amazing weather, greenery all around, great people and a beautiful pool. It was a lot of fun - Frank and all attempted to teach me how to swim!
(Check out Hotel Mango Hill : http://www.hotel-mangohill-pondicherry.com/)
Had a nice light brunch of Salads, bid goodbye to those who where taking off early and went back to the pool to chill before heading back to Chennai.
From Left to Right: Kalpesh, Swapnil, Dolores, Esteban, Pranali, Eliza and Me
We said our Goodbyes and headed back to Chennai with Kalpesh and Esteban by taxi. Got to the airport, checked into our respective flights and then headed to the "lounge" for a farewell drink and snacks.
Frank - Brand Ambassador for "British Empire - Ultra Premium Exclusive Beer"
Final goodbyes were said and we headed off to board our flights. On the way back to Pune, as I sat at my window seat in the plane and stared out into the night - I reflected back on my days in Pondi  - the places I saw and the people I met.

Pondicherry might not have a lot to see but its pretty amazing. The difference in architecture, culture etc. on either side of the canal, the old French colonial buildings, Auroville - the mystery that I see it as, the French Restaurants & Bakeries and lots more.

It should be on your places to see in India and you can always go back there just to relax.

All in All - A truly fantastic trip!